Nathalie Neville – A Parisian in Portland, Oregon

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How Nathalie got started

My name is Nathalie Neville.

Originally from Paris France, I grew up in the city and had a very typical French upbringing. I come from a family of 4 children, 1 older brother and 2 younger sisters.

My father was a business man and my mother a home maker.  My dad was also the president of the Paris Chamber of commerce.  My mom  was and still is an incredible cook!! So I grew up eating AMAZING foods!

I went to Catholic schools and took the subway and bus at a very young age. I went to night clubs starting at the age of 13 and started modeling at the age of 15. I spent most of my summers in either Normandy or the South of France. Most my relatives all lived in Paris.

First time in America

I came to the US for the first time during the summer of 1979 at the age of 13 to improve my English and stayed with some American friends of my parents in Long Island, New York. They had 2 teenage daughters who introduced me to the American teenage lifestyle. They taught me how to make grilled cheese sandwiches and how to put make up on.

On July 4th I went to New York City with the 2 teenage daughters. I experienced eating my first hot dog from a street cart and simply fell in love with New York City!!! It was bigger than life and intimidating at the same time. New York during that time was dirty and a little scary but I loved that edginess. I loved how busy the streets were and how tall the buildings were. I knew that I would eventually move to the Big City!!

Detour in Texas ends back to New York City

After High school, I moved to the US and did an exchange program for a year in Victoria,Texas.

I wanted to improve my English so that I would be able to attend college in the US. Texas was a very different experience for me . However, I enjoyed meeting many people who were all entertained by me.

The local newspaper even wrote an article about me. I was teaching French in a local high school while also getting an American High school diploma.
After a year, I moved to New York City where I did some modeling and attended NYU (New York University).


Life in Atlanta

At the age of 22 I moved to Atlanta and met an English guy whom I married.  We  had 4 children together. I raised my 4 children while teaching French part time and painting.

In 2008 I decided to open a women’s clothing boutique carrying European designers and some California made clothing as well. Opening my store the week the market crashed was probably not a good idea.

Somehow I managed to open 4 locations and finally closed all 4 stores the summer of 2015. I decided that I had lived in Atlanta for too long and because I had a daughter who moved to LA and a son moving to Colorado, I thought that I should move out West!! I went and visited Portland because a friend of mine lived in Bend OR and had always told me I would really like Oregon.

The new chapter in her life starts in Portland

I fell in love with Portland and the beauty of the State. 6 months later – I was moving there with my new husband. My ex-husband still lives in Atlanta and runs an English Pub. I now work for a women’s non-profit helping American Women who are living overseas and experiencing either domestic violence or sexual assault

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Gabi’s Story – From Satu Mare, Romania to Austin, TX

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Please introduce yourself?

My name is Gabi Vitui. I was born and raised in Satu Mare, Romania and I have some Hungarian blood in me too. I was in my second year at University, studying Marketing, when I got the opportunity to come to the US. The short version of my life changing decision goes somewhat like this:

I always wanted to accomplish more in my life. So, after finishing high school and attending university, I saw myself in the same life cycle as many around me; nothing wrong with that, but I wanted more, somehow. At the time, I was in a relationship and his dream was to come to America. At that time, I would’ve gone anywhere to stay with him. – Oh… those irresponsible love feelings that drive you J. We both applied for our work visas and almost a year later we received a phone call telling us that we had a week to go to the US Embassy. From that phone call, I had approximately 2 weeks to go to the interview, get my visa, my airplane ticket…and the hardest part – to say goodbye to my family. I ended up leaving alone, without boyfriend, as he didn’t get his visa. Heading to the big world with my recently received passport and barely speaking English. Now I speak not only Romanian and Hungarian, but also fluent English and Spanish.

How did you end up in Austin of all places?

In August 2005 I ended up in Estes Park, Colorado – a small tourist place in the mountains with not much to do but work where they put you to. I ended up working in Housekeeping – talk about cultural shock and work/educational shock. I never thought I will work in a position like that since I had a pretty comfortable life back home and I was in school. However, that phase in my life made me more determined and made me realize that I am a strong person. It was a difficult part of my life – missing home, my family, food and my old life. Amongst some of the hardship I went through, I had the pleasure to become friends with an American couple who were my supervisors. These amazing people that God has put in my life are the reason I made it to Austin. They decided to move back to Texas, and I soon followed.  They took me into their lives and treated me as the child they never had. I came to Austin in December 2006 and I decided to stay.

How do you find the lifestyle in Austin compared to your hometown in Satu Mare?

Well, at first it was super hard. I was without DL and car for about 2 years and most of you know that public transportation in Austin is not good at all. I didn’t know many people here the first few years, but slowly I started to make friends. I am blessed to have many good friends and some are like family. My home town is a small city of a population of approximately 109,000, located on the North side of Romania, bordering Hungary. Romania has all 4 seasons, and I definitely do not miss shoveling snow. We used to walk, take the bus or a cab to school, downtown and many other places. I did not know how to drive when I came here because I never had a need to learn. The transition was difficult, but here I am and still making it. I still miss the food (somehow even if I follow my mom’s recipe, still doesn’t taste like back home), the small town feel where time stops seems like and of course most of all I miss my family.  However, what I love about Austin is the diversity of cultures and food which I would not have the opportunity to be exposed to in my hometown. I love to try all kind of different foods. Also, I consider opportunities in Austin, USA in general are far more and better than back in Romania.

What is the best and worst about Austin for you?

What became the best part of Austin is the friends I have made. Being alone for many years, without knowing the language and knowing other people, you learn to appreciate the great people who come into your life. Even though Austin is changing rapidly, it still has the small feel to it, with lots of green belts, lakes, trails, live music, good restaurants… you name it. You can’t really be bored in this city. The downfall of the city is the lack of effective public transportation and traffic issues.

How do you make your living now – and how would you like to develop that career?

I am a full time Residential and Commercial Realtor at Austin Options Realty.

My journey to the US, as mentioned before, started in 2005 as housekeeper. When I moved to Austin, I started working in retail for 11hours/ day, sometimes with no days off. Thanks to some good friends I started working in an office environment and I was encouraged to take some classes at ACC. Until then, I learned English on my own, talking to people, reading books and searching every other word in the dictionary. I have years of experience in sales, office management, legal assistant and other admin. I never stop improving and challenging myself and that pushed me to change career. Yet again, I was encouraged to become a realtor, most of all by my current broker who’s been a good friend of mine for many years. He’s been bugging me about it for 2 years until I finally made the change and I am glad I did.

I work mostly by referrals and I appreciate my friends and my clients to refer me to their family and friends. I chose this career because it is a passion of mine and not just because of the money. I want to help others pursue their dreams and establish their new lives here in the Austin area. That’s what success looks like to me.

What made you change careers?

When I bought my house I had a feeling of accomplishment and joy among some feeling of fear of course. But in that moment I realized I wanted to help others to accomplish that dream as well, be part of their journey to find their home. Plus, I love looking at houses, decorate and remodel them when I have a chance. I consider myself a social person – love meeting new people and helping them in any way I can. I call it pay back for the help I’ve received and continue receiving. So I figured it will be a great fit for me and the money is good too J.

What do you absolutely miss from your country/elsewhere heritage (food, culture, movies etc) …or elsewhere?

What I really miss is my family. This is a common feeling for us foreigners more so when we can’t just go to visit them whenever we would like.

When you think about what did you think about life in Austin before you moved there – did your misconceptions turned out to be wrong?

Absolutely! I associated life in Texas with the old TV series Dallas, some of you might be familiar with it. I though it will be farm life and cowboys. It makes me laugh even now.

Knowing more about life and having lived with your decisions for a while (like work) – would you still choose to be there and why? Why not..

I try not to think about what would’ve been if… We make decisions and we have to live with them and its consequences. I tried and still trying to make the best of what comes toward me and at times is very difficult. Nonetheless, we all want to better our situation and we act according to what we know, the life experiences we accumulated, living conditions and emotional state at that giving time. So I guess I am where I am supposed to be and I am thankful for it, but and I can’t wait to have it even better J.

What cafés or restaurants do you recommend to tourists to go to in Austin  and why? Or to do something else.

Hmm, tough question. I go to as many places as possible – if you mention food, I am probably flying there. I’ve been recommending for a while Numero 28 Italian Restaurant (they should have a special Pizza for me hahaha – hint hint), St. Genevieve Restaurant, Fonda San Miguel Mexican Restaurant (best ceviche so far in town) and many more. I like all kinds of places, but I am not necessarily fond of “keep Austin weird” and casual all the time. People should put some shoes instead of flip flops depending on the place they go to. Dress to impress!

What would be your ideal life – with no monetary issues to make it happen!

Travel the world in a fancy way!

Would you move back to your country Romania fulltime?

I can’t see myself living there anymore. If life would take me back for whatever reason, I guess I would adjust to it, but it is not my desire.

Anything else you would like sharing with us?

I know all of us have a story, one’s harder than other’s. This is a glimpse of mine and I learned to be proud of it.  I want to encourage you and myself as well to never give up. It might be difficult at times, but go for your dreams. If you don’t know what those are, just try different things and t

EuroCircle Profile: Gabi at EC forums

Facebook: Gabriela Vitui

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Scandinavian Design Company Enters Austin

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Scandinavian Spaces – a new interior specialist that focuses on employee engagement and wellness at work – announced today that they will open up their first showroom in Austin this fall.
The company prides itself in helping businesses increase employee engagement and wellness through their interior design solutions and partner brands (Kinnarps, Blå Station, Glimåkra, Götessons, Lintex, Materia, Minus Tio, Nordgröna, Nordic Care, Skandiform, ZilenZio). Scandinavian Spaces may be a new name on the market, but the management has long experience and recognized success in workplace design.

The partners and brothers, Robert and Thomas Jonsson have been involved in building their family business, Kinnarps USA, serving American and Canadian customers with Scandinavian furniture since 1991.

“We are thrilled to share our vision of providing workplace wellness through furnishing with our partner brands. The decision to open our first showroom in Austin is a natural step, as the people here are highly motivated and open when it comes to healthy living, social responsibility and environmental sustainability”, says partner of Scandinavian Spaces, Robert Jonsson. “We are dedicated to helping businesses achieve an environment in which their staff and customers can prosper. Our interior solutions are designed for diversity and the modern workforce…for us there is no ‘one size fits all’. Such a simple update as incorporating sitting or standing desks at the office makes a markable difference in one’s workplace performance and productivity through improved ergonomics.”

To learn more about the showroom opening, expansion plans or to book an interview, contact Maria Berg at 1.512.888.6606 or email, maria@scandinavianspaces.com, alternatively visit the website at www.scandinavianspaces.com.

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About Scandinavian Spaces                                                                                                             

Founded in 2016, Scandinavian Spaces creates work environments which foster health and well-being. Scandinavian Spaces offers furnishing solutions for offices, cafés, restaurants, hotels, hospitals, and arenas. The business is focused on design, ergonomics, social responsibility and environmental sustainability.

UNVEILED: An American Woman Living in Saudi Arabia. (Part 1)

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To protect the interviewee’s safety and privacy, we are not using her real name. Instead, we will refer to her as “Sina”. This will be a series of interviews, covering multiple aspects of her life and career in Saudi Arabia.

I first met Sina in 2011 when she was working at International House, in Philadelphia. This former Fedex executive originally from San Francisco was embarking on a big life change, and it seemed that Philly was just a pit stop, on her way to something bigger. Two years later, I wasn’t surprised to receive a greeting, from Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. I was surprised that this gregarious and always smiling woman, was now living behind the veil, as she had embarked on a new career in teaching at a Saudi university.

SK: Let’s start with the most obvious question, what possessed you to apply for a job in such a drastically different culture?

Sina: For as long as I can remember I have never shied away from challenges. As an English Literature major at Cal State, Hayward, I was required to take two years of a foreign language before earning my BA degree. Taking Spanish would have been easy for me since I took classes in high school. But I thought “Nay….let’s take Japanese!” In the long run, it was not only fun, but a great decision that helped my career at FedEx.

Regarding teaching abroad, I was offered jobs in S. Korea and China, but I knew Asia wasn’t going any where so why not apply to a country few people can enter (especially single women), it is counter culture to my way of life, and a place known for not allowing women the freedoms most women around the world enjoy. Once again, a challenge was staring me in the face. I’ll take it! The past two years have been tough at times, but I’d do it all over to gain the same life experiences I’ve had.

SK: I am sure that culture shock was unavoidable in this situation. What were your first impressions of Riyadh, and your life on a compound?

Sina: I thought I wouldn’t see most western food for a long time. In fact, my mother made a point of making lots of bacon, I ate all my favorite foods (cheetos, Starbuck Frappucinos, etc…). But to my surprise, fast food and any junk food you could imagine is all right here! Leave it to capitalism to find another thriving market! In fact, obesity and diabetes has now become a problem in the Middle East.

On the outside, Riyadh looks like any other city, USA: American cars, fast food restaurants, shopping malls, tall, modern buildings (next to beautiful mosques and souks of course), freeways in the desert, etc….It’s the way they do business that is radically different than in America.

Everything shuts down for prayer time (5 times a day) and through out the year these times fluctuate. So you need to set your clock (or down load the My Prayer App and set it to Riyadh time) or you’ll find yourself standing in the grocery line with the clerk saying “Sorry, prayer time” and you’re standing there with a cart full of foods, some melting away! (And for up to 30 minutes too depending on the specific prayer.) It took me 6 months to finally get this down. But like anything else in my life, FedEx taught me how to respect time, and logistically work in a manner that would work in my favor.

My first compound, in all honesty was a dump! I couldn’t have been more disappointed. As I was walking to my villa, avoiding clothes lines, I thought to myself “I did not get a prestigious MBA to live like this!” The washing machine was one you had to fill with water from a hose. I could only take a shower either very early in the morning or late at night because the water tanks are outside in the sun. The water was simply too hot to use. And regarding the water, it is so chemically treated, my hair started to develop split ends from it, and being exposed to the hot sun. I had to cut my long beautiful hair. But not to worry. I eventually figured out how all these Saudi girls keep their hair so long and healthy. I now apply the same techniques they do (rinse in bottled water, wash as little as possible, and hot oil treatments on a regular bases.) The hair is back to normal (waist length). I now live in a beautiful western style compound.

My rent is high and I’m far from “the big city”, but it is worth the peace of mind. I feel normal in my little bubble. I can also socialize with anyone I like. In the first compound it was all women. I like women, but it was a bit too much estrogen for me. I work with them, ride the bus with them , teach them…halas, as they say here (finished)! I need to see and talk to some men!

SK: What was it like to put on an abaya for the very first time?

Sina: I thought I would hate wearing an abaya but I absolutely love it! I have 6 of them. I make them my own personal fashion statements. Most of them have some color. My “Hugh Hefner” abaya wraps like robe and has beautiful gold trim. I wear it to events in the evening. My “rebellious” abaya is all purple. Wearing them does take some getting used to. The sleeves are wide like a Japanese Kimono so you have to be careful when you’re eating. You also have to be mindful to not get stuck in the escalators, or car doors. Also, if I’m wearing a black abaya, I need to be remember that I am hard to see if I’m crossing the street at night. Because I am not Saudi or Muslim, I am not required to wear a Hijab (covering your hair) or Nicab (covering hair and face). I wouldn’t want to wear either of them. Although covering your face does have it’s benefits during sand storms.

SK: How would you describe educational opportunities for women in Saudi Arabia?

Sina: They have improved due to the late King Abdullah but there is so much more that can be done. KSA pays my students to attend university. Some of the students get it. They know without an education their options in life will be limited. If they work hard, get their degree, and stay focused they can achieve great things. Unfortunately, most of the young women see university as just a means to get out of the house, see their friends, and have some freedom! I don’t blame them. They are caged little song birds. If you’ve been told since the time you are small that a man will take care of you, make all your decisions (and if the father and brothers have treated them well) then why worry about life? They don’t understand what real freedom is.

The educational system here needs more classes that require greater critical thinking skills. Saudi Arabia was a society that relied heavily on memorization, and was known for relying on learning through oral teaching. Because of this, I find many of the students are lazy when it comes to reading, writing, and speaking. But that’s where the teacher comes in. I see it as my role to not only teach English but help them realize these other skills can be fun. I’m constantly looking for creative resources. The greater challenge is we are not permitted to discuss so many topics that it make my job difficult.

SK: What is the typical life story of a Saudi woman?

Sina: That depends on her family and tribe, specifically her father. I have found that the young women whose fathers have been educated in the West, and are more progressive minded, have greater freedom and better educations. The MBA students I tutor are very bright and worldly. I thoroughly enjoy teaching them. They’ve traveled the world and therefore have to know English.

Last NYE I was traveling to Bahrain and sat next to two young Saudi women. They struck up a conversation with me, as most do who want to practice their English. I couldn’t help but think that they were given a great deal of freedom to travel by themselves on a secular holiday, to Bahrain of all places (imagine Las Vegas, Middle Eastern style).

And for those young women who do not have forward thinking fathers….my heart bleeds for them. The young women at PNU make up a majority of these girls. A former PNU student confessed to one of my colleagues that the reason why a majority of the girls attend PNU is because their fathers make them in order to receive the monthly stipend (850SAR/mo, approximately $250/mo.). This money then goes to the family (which is usually very large, 7-13 children, with one wife!) And to ensure the young lady doesn’t become too smart or independent, they don’t give her a lot of time to study her subjects, and she eventually drops out or is let go for not passing her courses. The latter I know is true because too many times I’ve had young girls enter my classroom so exhausted from the events the night before they can barely stay awake. I asked one girl if her mother knew how late she stayed out. “Teacher, I was with her at the wedding”.

A vast majority of these young women have no common sense when it comes to finances or budgeting. If they’re allowed to keep their money, they waste it on food and clothes. Why save when you believe God will always take care of all your needs. I’ve tried to explain that God likes for us to depend on Him, but He also appreciates it when we use the talents He’s given us: investing, creating, etc. So, shopping, sleeping, some school work, spending time with family and more sleeping makes up the average day of a Saudi girl.

SK: You have mentioned in the past that you were frustrated by how women in your position were being treated. Can you give us some details?

 Sina: I try not to generalize but if I’m going to be really honest women are not treated as equals or given as much respect as men. And if you’re a western woman sometimes it feels a little more one sided against you. If you are not completely covered like a Saudi woman, many assumptions are made about you: your morals are not as high, you’re not a Muslim, you want attention from men, and that you can be treated with disrespect (spoken to rudely, stared at, or pushed aside.)

What I have learned is when you stand up for yourself the men (and and sometimes women) quickly back down. This has taught me that any respect I get is earned and not automatically given to me because I’m a human. So I make it more of a point to always walk with confidence, not tolerating poor behavior, and even defend others if I see these rude behaviors demonstrated to them. Living here has taught me that I need to depend on other skills to ultimately get what I want (see my answer to another question below)

SK:  Are you dating? What are romantic relationships like for foreigners living in Saudi Arabia?

Sina: I don’t recommend dating here for a few reasons: 1) Most ex-pat men are not to be trusted. They have families and girlfriends back home and are not honest with most single women here. If a woman knows about it, and she chooses to look the other way, that’s her prerogative. It’s just not for me. But most women here have no idea about the lives of the men they’re dating, so they need to be cautious. 2) Arab men generally want only one thing. (I doubt I need to spell it out.) Again if a western woman living in KSA only wants that in a relationship, who am I to judge. Just know you’ve been warned. 3) Dating, even mingling with the opposite sex is considered haram (bad) and legally forbidden! If you’re caught, you will get a written warning by the Mutawa (like I did for having ice cream in public with a man not my relation or husband. I pretty much cried my way out of the worst scenario) or you could be deported. 3) If the person you are dating is not Arab, but a Muslim, be prepared for a roller coaster relationship! I fell in love with a Turk. He was handsome and charming, but as the relationship developed it was obvious we couldn’t make it work. He was way too possessive, and controlling for me. Everything I did eventually drove him nuts because he couldn’t control me, or control other men from talking to me (which he would then place the blame on me!) We could not be more polar opposite. The only commonality was we were both faithful to our religions (I’m a Christian.) Turkish men are very handsome, but I have no desire to ever date another one. And I’m pretty confident I will be the last American my Turk will ever date!

SK: How has your experience in Riyadh changed you as a person?

Sina: Living in Saudi Arabia has made me mentally stronger and forced me to rely on other skills to get my way. I prefer using logic, and facts to make my case when I want something. Those skills are sometimes irrelevant here! “Wasta” (influence and power) and flirting many times are the attributes that help me get what I need. I’ve always been a person who is more interested in getting results, not necessarily being right.

SK: If one day, your daughter told you she was going to move to Saudi to teach, how would you react?

My first thought would be “chip off the old block” and then shake my head. I would make sure she had thought out all the pros and cons, examine why she really wants to go, and if I’m satisfied with her explanations, I would give her my blessing. I believe children belong to their parents only for a little while. It is the parents job to help them grow and develop into the person God wants them to be. I wish my mother had been more accepting of my ideas and circumstances. It would have created less tension along my path for both of us.

More about her life and thoughts at a later interview.

Marisol Monasterio’s Love for Flamenco & Tango Keeps Her Busy in Houston

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Please introduce yourself

My name is Marisol Monasterio.  I came from Caracas, Venezuela when I was 16 years old to start college with a swimming scholarship from University of Houston.  Later I attended Texas Woman’s University to get a Master degree in Occupational Therapy and specialized in Hand Therapy.  I have been very involved with the American Society of Hand Therapy and the Texas Society of Hand Therapists for many years. I work in a private clinic by Spring Cypress helping and assisting orthopedic patients to be independent again.

How did you end up in the art field? 

When I was finishing my fourth swimming varsity year, I decided to join the Colombian Folkloric Ballet in order to stay active and start a more artistic path. Dancing was not my specialty at all, but with time it kept growing on me and getting better at it. I also did a few years of Argentinean Tango dancing.

So why Flamenco?

Since I was a little girl, I was mesmerized by Flamenco, but it was a very expensive activity for me to follow.  When I started working and making my own money, I decided that it was time to take some classes, plus I was motivated by one of my dance teachers that told me that I had the “porte” or the style for it. I started taking dance classes in Houston, and later I was asked to start singing because of the roughness of my voice.  I studied cante (singing) locally with Kina Mendez, Javier Heredia, Juan Bacan and Isai Chacon, as well as in Granada Spain with Sergio “el Colorao” Gomez. 

What have been your merits?

I recorded as a vocalist in Amin Safari’s CD “Pasion de la Guitarra”, I have been honored by the Houston Press with an article as one the 100 Creatives 2012 due to my unusual voice and emotional performance, I have performed in many “Tablaos” in Houston and San Antonio as well as having the pleasure of representing Hierro Forjado flamenco dance troupe in several theatrical performances, but my biggest merit was to direct the show Caminos Gitanos in 2015. (https://youtu.be/M63B2QeWdS8)

What is your most immediate project?

Hierro Forjado’s Director and Dancer, Alexandra Simmons,presents her newest production: NuevosHorizontes (New Horizons), featuring HF’s Performing Troupe and a display of Houston’s most recognized flamenco artists: Lucía and Valdemar, Marisol Monasterio and Martin Rodríguez, Laura Siebert, and Bianca Antonia. Don’t miss this fabulous flamenco concert and performance. It will be held at the beautiful Queensbury Theatre by City Centre (12777 Queensbury) at 7:15 pm on May 14th.

In this show we will take you from the most delicate and delightful representation of Flamenco such as Guajiras and Alegrias, to the earthy and emotional Tientos/Tangos and Bulerias.  Each soloist will express their deepest feelings only seen in Flamenco Hondo, and the Cantaoras (singers) and musicians will transport you to another level with their sensitivity.  I have the great honor to interpret the cante (singing) for the troupe, dance with them and paid a tribute to my biggest inspiration in flamenco, Lola Flores.

What is the essence of Houston to you?

their cultural variety that makes us so unique and gives us the opportunity to learn from each other.

I have found that through art, we have been able to connect lives and people’s backgrounds.  Houston is a wonderful city to explore and to find what makes you special.

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For New Horizons tickets please visit http://hfflamenconuevoshorizontes2016.eventbee.com

You tube Caminos Gitanos: https://youtu.be/M63B2QeWdS8

 

 

Sini Hill (Kangasmaki) – Finnish Actress Based in New York City

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Who are you:

I’m a Finnish actress, born in Jyvaskyla, Finland and currently based in New York City. Acting has been my passion since I was 9 years old. I graduated from NYFA’s Acting for Film in May 2015 and immediately began working.  I initially launched my career as an actress and model in film, television and theater, landing various roles and projects.

How did you end up in New York City of all places?

In order to pursue my dreams, I decided to relocate to New York. NYC has a prominent film industry in addition to LA; therefore, it had the perfect foundation to build my acting career. I’ve always wanted to experience the atmosphere of this city and the film industry is on fire in New York, there are tons of productions and filming at the moment. Busy filming and production means there’s plenty of work, which was a great reason to relocate here.

How do you make your living now – and how would you like to develop that career?

I make my living here doing what I love, working as a full time actress.  This is definitely not the easiest career choice, it takes perseverance and dedication. I’ve worked extremely hard since I graduated, and that is beginning to pay off.  I’ve attended numerous auditions and castings, and not getting callbacks is part of the industry. My perseverance started showing results and I was cast in commercials for brands like Baileys and Christian Dior. The highlight of my career so far is landing my first leading role in an independent feature drama, written and directed by an American author John Reed. I was also cast in NBC’s crime drama TV series “The Blacklist” and I’m part of a fun reality production premiering on WE tv this spring.

Do you see the differences between nationalities easily – yours vs. Americans vs. other Europeans?

Yes definitely! As us Finns know, we aren’t one to handle the culture of small talk so well, however, I got used to it pretty quickly but still might be the quietest person in the room (laugh). Americans might feel uncomfortable about silent moments so they try to fill them up quickly, but for Finns it’s completely natural to be quiet for a long time. Also, the networking culture here is so much bigger than in Finland. Especially in this industry, it’s a lot about who you know. That requires great social skills, courage, and the ability to create contacts.

What’s your typical day in New York like?

There’s no such thing as a typical day in my schedule in New York. My days vary – I might be onset at the crack of dawn till late evening or running around the city in auditions, castings and meetings. The working days are extremely long, one day at a film shoot can last from 10-17 hours.

What are the best things in New York City? Is there anything that drives you crazy?

I love New York City, it’s the center of art and culture where everything is possible. Everyday you’ll meet different, interesting people from all around the world and explore amazing cultural events, food and beautiful scenery. One of my favorite things is to walk on the cute neighborhoods of SoHo or West Village and sit at cozy cafes.

Sometimes the city can be extremely crowded, which can make me feel anxious at times. Also the freezing wind might feel unbearable in the winter – even though I’m from Finland I still don’t like the coldness (laugh).

What do you absolutely miss from your Finland?

The nature, space and the fresh air. Living in the concrete jungle makes me miss the forests, lakes and our summerhouse. Luckily I have relatives in upstate NY so I can escape the traffic and insane crowds there. I also miss the fresh Finnish food, salmiakki (salty liquorice), and of course my family and friends.

What would be your ideal life – with no monetary issues to make it happen!

To continue doing what I love – acting, to grow as an actress and have a successful, international career. I would also love to travel around the world and explore interesting places and meet diverse people. The ultimate ideal life would be to have homes on the East and West Coast, while still being able to visit Finland often.

Would you move back to Finland fulltime –why and why not?

I love Finland and it’ll always be my home country, but for now, I have more working opportunities and ability to grow an international career here in the U.S. I love to visit Finland as often as I can.

How to connect with Sini:

Email: email Sini
Website: www.sinihill.com
Facebook.com/SiniKangasmaki
Instagram.com/sinihill

Interviews elsewere for example:

www.thenordique.com

Anna Katrina Davey – Bridging Cultures and Giving Companies the Confidence to Succeed Globally

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Please introduce yourself

My name is Anna Katrina Davey and I am from Trieste, Italy. I have called Italy as well as Connecticut, Germany and more recently Texas, home. I have also lived in Hanoi, Vietnam and have traveled about 45 countries, many of which for extended periods of time. Nine years ago I moved to Austin, Texas where I also founded my intercultural training and expat relocation services firm, Cultural Confidence.

Tell us something about your hometown

Trieste is city of arcane splendor and elusive identity cradled at the top of the Adriatic Sea. If you are prone to stereotyping, Trieste would help you appreciate the intricacies of culture. Located at the farthest northeastern corner of the country, only twenty minutes from the border with Slovenia, half hour away from Croatia and one and a half hours from Austria, Trieste has been a crossroads of Latin, Slavic and Germanic cultures throughout history. Greeks, Jews and even Armenians have thrived here and contributed to its rich culture. And over half a millennium as part of Austria, later to be the Austrian-Hungarian Empire, have lent the city the strong Mitteleuropean flavor it shares with other Habsburg cities such as Vienna, Budapest and Prague.

For all the differences one could possibly imagine between my place of birth and the place I now call home, there are three commonalities that come straight to mind. Firstly, the limestone and low vegetation of the Texas Hill Country just west of Austin resemble the topography of the Carso, the karst landscape surrounding Trieste. Secondly, Texas’ strong independent identity and ongoing conversations around its alleged right to secede bring to mind Trieste’s small yet committed movement towards recognition as a free city-state. Interestingly and baffling enough, our ID cards, issued by the Italian government, feature a silhouette of the country missing Trieste’s territory! Thirdly, both Austin and Trieste seem to be proud of the oddness of their inhabitants. Austin in fact prides itself in “keeping it weird” while in Trieste we say “se no i xe mati, no li volemo” – “if they aren’t crazy, we don’t want them”. Further proof of our kookiness is that in our dialect, the normal, neutral way to refer to a guy is with the word “mulo” or “mato”. Literally, and to all other Italians, these words refer to “mule” and “crazy one” respectively, but for us, it’s just how we call our fellow humans. At this point I should also mention that my hometown is pioneer in the field of mental health. In fact, under the leadership of psychiatrist Franco Basaglia, Trieste, soon followed by the rest of Italy, became the first place worldwide to abolish psychiatric hospitals in favor of a more humane, inclusive and progressive treatment of the mentally ill. Unsurprisingly, “crazy” is a customary part of the Triestine landscape.

How did you end up in Austin of all places?

Karma, family circumstances and lack of a conventional sense of belonging inherited from my hometown, have led me to explore my identity and its multiple facets by experiencing different cultures. Accordingly, I have lived and worked on three continents and traveled some of the remotest parts of the world. A brief romantic relationship led me to leave my job as an intercultural advisor with the German Development Service in Hanoi, Vietnam and move to Austin.

How do you feel about living in Austin?

Austin wasn’t love at first sight for me, despite the expectations of all the locals who with smile to their ears would ask me the rhetorical-sounding question “So how do you like Austin?” – with only one fathomable enthusiastic answer in their mind. I also did not relate to the ubiquitous bumper stickers proudly displayed on many cars that read “I wasn’t born in Texas, but I got here as fast as I could”. Yet despite a brief hiatus in New York City I stayed. Time in fact has changed both Austin – one of the fastest growing cities in the US – and myself in such ways that this is the place that I now proudly call home.

How do you find the lifestyle in Austin?

Quality of life here is good. People are friendly, kind and non-judgmental, the weather is nice year-round, we have a lake rimmed by a stunning 10-mile trail in the middle of town and an array of activities of all kinds to enjoy. Locally owned coffee shops are the norm, restaurants of all kinds with organic, locally sourced, vegan and gluten-free options abound as well. My evenings out include the most diverse activities, ranging from dancing forró to live music on a patio outside of an organic supermarket, salsa on a musician barge at Town Lake (now officially Lady Bird Lake), and bollywood for a fundraiser or flash mob. I regularly go to the opera as well as enjoy intimate community gatherings singing kirtan or partaking in sacred indigenous pipe ceremonies. And so much more. I have also somewhat preserved my old-world lifestyle by biking through town whenever I have the chance – to meet up with a friend, take part in a yoga class, go to the farmer’s market or buy groceries at Whole Foods Downtown. Proximity to all these things and riding my bicycle are essential to my lifestyle. And given the fact that direct access to raw nature is also vital to me, I am fortunate to live in what I find to be the best part of town. In fact, while enjoying proximity to the city’s “core”, I live directly on the “Greenbelt” that stretches through Central/South Austin. There is hardly anything that gives me more satisfaction than being able to walk back home through the beauty and simplicity of the Greenbelt after a swim at Barton Springs Pool or a Sunday afternoon spent downtown.

How do you make your living?

My company, Cultural Confidence, provides three main services: Intercultural Training, Expatriate Relocation Services and Language Training. While the third offering is relatively self-explanatory, I will briefly provide some insight into the first two aspects of my work. Through Intercultural Training we help companies succeed in global markets by giving their employees the confidence to work and communicate effectively with foreign counterparts and clients. We help clients in the areas of international assignments, expatriate risk management, global virtual teams, new market entry and merger integration. This work seems to be a natural path for me and is a reflection of some of things I value most in life. It is about developing a holistic perspective, recognizing the yin and yang of our culture-based values and respecting a plurality of views. It is about breaking down barriers through understanding, communication and connection, and ultimately fostering global peace.

A few years ago, in the wake of Austin’s fast-paced growth and several inquiries, I decided to add Austin-Bound Expatriate Relocation Services to my firm’s offerings. In this capacity, we help company transferees and new-hires from every corner of the globe efficiently settle into Austin. We provide them with an area orientation and tour, home finding assistance and help getting official documents such as a social security card or Texas driver’s license. Having struggled first-hand to make this place my home and now truly appreciating and enjoying it, I find it rewarding to help others experience a smooth transition and discover all the wonderful things this place has to offer. As I believe joys are to be shared and not be hoarded away from others, you can confidently assume that my car does not display the increasingly common bumper sticker “Welcome to Austin. Please don’t move here”.

 

How to connect with you:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anna.k.davey
Cultural Confidence @ Facebook
Website: www.culturalconfidence.com

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anna-katrina-davey-6888837

Twitter: annakatrinaCC

Parisian Style in Philadelphia – Valerie Vittu @ Margot & Camille Optique

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Born and raised in Paris, this French transplant, arrived in USA in January 1994, and has moved around quite a bit before finally settling down in Philadelphia, in April 2005. If you frequent Old City or enjoy its arts scene, you may have noticed her funky eyewear shop Margot & Camille Optique, on North 3rd Street, with its modern orange and white décor. Step inside, and you’ll be greeted by a warm smile and a collection on unique accessories, sourced from the best showrooms in the world. This is where east coast’s best dressed get accessorized, and personally styled by owner, Valerie Vittu.

SK: You are a big fan of living in the USA, and a huge part of Philadelphia’s fashion and cultural scene. Why did you choose to make Philly your home?

VV: At first I didn’t choose Philadelphia, but rather it is Philadelphia that picked me. I used to work in NYC on Madison Avenue, and after the birth of my 2nd daughter, Camille, going back to work in NYC was such an expense in day care and nanny, that I thought why not open my own optical boutique. A friend told me about Old City and first Friday. I checked it out, and that was it. I felt like back to the Marais in Paris 30 years ago. All I saw was the possibilities of what Old City could be.

SK: American women have always admired personal style of French women, and are a bit intimidated by their polish and sophistication. How do you view the fashion scene here in Philadelphia?

VV: Intimidated? You mean totally scared. I think many American have a chip on their shoulder about style and fashion. It is time to give it up. I find that American women who are interested in fashion know more about it than some Europeans. They may not know about some less published designer like Courreges, Celine or Balmain, but when they decide to know about the subject, they are way more informed than some French women I know. What’s missing is the growing up with this type of fashion awareness. But the next generation may be more educated from birth.

Meanwhile, Philadelphia women won’t dress up so often on average. They are looking for the practical versus the fashionable. When I first arrived in Philadelphia I dressed down a little because I looked so unapproachable in my upper east side outfit; it was intimidating. Very few people would talk to me and as a result, my clientele was mainly men. I could not figure it out. So I bought clogs and started to wear jeans to work, and women started to come in. I gave them a way to relate.

Now, it is better. Old City has grown and lots of people are coming from many different places, including NYC. So I put back my heels and wear my black outfit again… And women now ask me advise. Funny.

SK: Economically, Philly has always been a tough market for a small business owner. With a luxury product, how do you compete and stay ahead of the curve?

VV: I don’t compete. I just figured out: “it’s not going to be easy, so might as well be authentic”. I never really understood Philadelphia’s market. Some days are good some not so much. The key is to follow your heart. I sell what I truly like. I know the value of my product and I believe in it. At the beginning I would cry, wondering why I came here? I saw something and I felt like I have been duped. I would blame myself for diving head first into something that existed only in my mind. Following a vision seamed to be a bad idea.

Today, I think I stayed ahead because I never consider to be arrived. I take myself as a student of life. Maybe, because I failed high school and managed to study around it. If I had a master at something I would have stopped learning and I would have never grow.

SK: As a French transplant, what do you think of Philadelphia’s international social scene?

VV: It’s getting there. I won’t call it United Nations, but it’s getting there. I think Philadelphia has been for a very long time a very clan city. Very impermeable to anybody from “outside”. When I first arrived, the only French or foreigners were older than my parents. You had to go to south Jersey where was the Durand glass factory to meet some French people. Most of the foreigners live together.

We have little Italy, Chinatown, the Polish, Irish, German and Russian “neighborhoods “, but no French one. Mostly because the French are known to be loners. And thanks to that it helped me to Americanize myself much faster at the beginning. In 2008, when the Euro was very strong, many French companies bought some pharmaceutical business around Philadelphia, so the French community kind of expand.

As far as other nationalities, I don’t know. But all I know is that as long as it took, I now can tell that I belong. I do have many friends who are “natives Philadelphians”.

SK: What would a Parisian find most charming about Philadelphia?

VV: I think Old City, because of the historical landscape and the art galleries. Like I said, it really remind me of “Le Marais ” in Paris. Plus the old buildings with their lofts and apartments are so charming. I feel like it is half Soho half “le Marais”. And the cobble stones streets remind me of the north of France where my mother’s family is from. I have so many memories from driving on the “pavets du Nord” And also, the parks. So many; it gives a sense of peace to be in a city and to cross “gardens” here and there. I used to go at the “Jardin du Luxembourg ” when I was young. It gave me a sense of natural resourcing, like grounding energy.

And of course the art scene. To me Philadelphia feels like you can express your feelings with art. There is the music, but so many sculpturing and painting everywhere. There is the murals but I love that we have galleries who are so “avant garde ” it almost looks like they don’t care if people are ready to understand it or not. They just exhibit. It feels like their mission is to show what it is. And that’s ok, you’ll get it one day. My favorite gallery if I could just pick one would be the Becker Gallery on 2nd street. The Beckers are such nice people and when you let yourself in their world it is fun. I think Larry , who is an icon in the arts gallery scene in Old City with the Snyderman Gallery, is so funny. I may not have been his fav at the beginning, but when I told him I was in Love with Soulages, we connected. I think I love the people who’s purpose is art; and these people are in Old City. It matches with my purpose of Beauty and Value.

SK: In your opinion, what are the biggest misconceptions Americans have about life in France?

VV: They think the French are nice. I don’t see it this way.

SK: But you are nice to your customers.

VV: humm… I would say I am brutally honest, which is not always a good thing

SK: So what do you see in the French that American don’t ?

VV: I see how France has been evolving with fashion, art and architecture . I get how charming it looks to Americans. But it is mainly because our history and heritage are a little older than the USA. So it is kind of inevitable to have it in your blood when you are from France or Europe. There is always an urge for a visual surrounding that please the eye. Anything in France seams artistic. So basically Americans fall in love with France. But got to know sometimes the lovers can a jerk.

SK: If you had to define the source of Fashion, what would it be?

VV: If I had to define a “route for fashion” it would be: London gave birth to it, Rome amplifies it, Paris cleans it, and New-York sells it.

SK: How do you see eye-wear in the fashion world?

VV: Eye-wear, not sunglasses, has been a popular fashion accessory since 1980 in France. It is that urge for something esthetic that pushed it out of the catwalk. In the USA it has started in the late 90’s. Before, it was like an Old City gallery, something marginal. The eye-wear industry is going to explode and become like the hand bag mania. People will have more than one, it will convey a social status, a personality and will give each individual a significance.

After all, eye-wear is a revenge on a handicap. Impaired vision is the worst that can happen to a kid at school. You get to be called names etc. To own it has an accessory that make you look amazing; this is priceless.

SK: So do you see your business growing in the next few years?

VV: Yes, but not in an easy way. The distinction between what’s high end and what’s not is going to be difficult. The fine products are going to be shadowed by the over priced and less than good. In the end, people will say: ” I spent so much money and it didn’t last! Went back, they could not fix it or replace it”; customers are going to be frustrated and will lose the faith in the product just because they will have been fooled by someone who sold them something too expensive for the value of the product.

SK: So what how do you think it can be prevented?

VV: Education. The consumer has to be educated on the fine eyewear. I have been giving speeches to doctors and opticians trade show since 2007. We have to send the same message. People need to know the difference, the same way they know the difference between a Kia and a Maserati. It has nothing to do with the price, it is just a matter of value, and prestige. High end products have zero budget for marketing, because high end manufacturers put all the money in the product. The more advertising you see about a product, the less money there is in that product. Branding on the other hand, is developing a concept, an image, a standard. That’s what we have got to do. And keep on the integrity level.

If you live in Philadelphia, or are just visiting, take a stroll through Old City, and pop into Margo & Camille Optique, 47 N 3rd St. You will be glad you met Valerie.
Interview by Sherry Kumar, EuroCircle Philadelphia

Margot & Camille Optique

Valerie Vittu @ EuroCircle Forums

Valerie Vittu @ Facebook

Women of Strength by Jodi Swanson, Chicago

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Do you know a woman in your life that has too much on her shoulders?  Maybe you are the woman that is expected to always hold it together.

The Truth

If so, this is a Kickstarter to either watch and relate or share with someone you love.  It is photography project for women who never knew how strong they were, until they had to be.  Maybe you know one, maybe you are one.

Women of Strength
Why do so many women cry alone? Are they silently carrying too much on their shoulders?
Jodi’s campaign will illuminate answers to these questions and empower women and people by:
1) Creating a book that shares stories and images.
2) Helping reach more women to photograph… (details below).

Here is a link to the Kickstarter created by Jodi Swanson:

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/827513955/women-of-strength

Jodi is a photographer that uses her camera to talk about the emotions that many women never speak of.  She does this either through documenting the stories of women or taking self-portraits that bring to light those moments many women silently hide.

 

Many of her photos can be found at: www.facebook.com/thewomenofstrength

 

Uninvited Guest

Anna

A woman who knows the silent pain of a miscarriage…

Ilona Lee – A Manhattan-Based Polish Entrepreneur Inspires Other Entrepreneurs

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Please introduce yourself:

My name is Ilona Lee Wojciechowska, I moved to New York from Warsaw, Poland eleven and half years ago. I’m the proud mother of nine year old Vivienne. Midtown Manhattan is our home.

How do you make a living and – and how would you like to develop your career?

I’m an Entrepreneur, the founder of ILE MAISON (Platform for International Entrepreneurs), a Personal Branding Expert, and a Real Estate Salesperson at TOWN Fifth ave. I help others to build an authentic and unique brand for themselves and their businesses. After over fifteen years of working in marketing, branding and public relations I have seen what it takes to build a powerful brand and make it unique. It’s an Inside and outside job. To help my clients with the Inside Job I became a strategic business and life coach. I am certified through the T. Robbins Maddens Training Center. I’m passionate about uncovering what is unique about other people.

I love inspiring people to start original projects and launch initiatives. I strive to help them envision what can be accomplished when they use their strengths, unique talents, and passions. I have been consulting, coaching, and connecting women in business with one another in New York for years and now. ILE MAISON is expanding internationally and opening the door for men as well. We are adding new events series and Travels with Intentions. Our goal is to inspire, connect, and help people discover themselves, other people and the world around them.

What are the best and worse things about NYC?

NYC is the best city in the world but it can be overwhelming and stressful at the same time. This
is especially true if you don’t have a clear vision or a purpose for being here in the city. That’s why it’s so important to know who we are and understand what we do and why we do it. Having goals, dreams and mission helps you overcome challenges and stay strong and positive 😉

What restaurants in NYC do you recommend?

I love fresh, healthy, and well-presented food. I’m also a big fan of mixing and trying signature dishes, and fusion cooking. Jean Georges Vongerichten never disappoints me. He buys ingredients from local farmers, fresh fish, and his skill extend far beyond the kitchen. His restaurant ABC Kitchen is my favorite place. I also frequently go to Jean-Georges. Eric Ripert ( Le Bernardin) inspires me. Greek chef Maria Loi – owner of Loi restaurant on W58th St, one block from me is so creative. EATALY Cafe has the best coffee in town ! For those who would like to taste authentic polish food I recommend Christina’s Restaurant in Greenpoint. My favorite places and chefs in NYC are all European by the way 😉

What would be your ideal life with no monetary issues to worry about?

I’m happy to say I would continue doing what I do. I am grateful every day to be doing what I love. I would continue to expand my business globally, help people in other countries, especially women and kids. I would also work to help people in developing countries grow their businesses. Making a difference, doing purposeful work and building meaningful relationships make me happy. I would travel extensively to meet and build new authentic businesses, and help them build their brands. I know it’s gonna happen soon anyway! 😉 I’m a big fan of spas, wellness centers, and tranquil spaces. Building a wellness center with a boutique hotel by the ocean is on my list as well. For now I am just continuing my travels to the most beautiful beaches in the world looking for that perfect spot. Maybe in few years I will host Eurocircle events at my ILE Maison on a beautiful Island 😉

What should everyone know and understand about your country?

That the biggest treasure of Poland is Polish women! We are smart, well educated, and beautiful. We make great wives and moms. We are down to earth, caring and strong. I have met so many successful polish Entrepreneurs here and I’m so proud of them!!! They inspire me every day. I used to be a part of the committee that chooses extraordinary Poles in USA. We have so many extraordinary people coming from Poland. Part of my mission is to empower polish women, and help them to create their American Dream here. I see this happening more and more.

What is the essence of NYC?

The essence of NYC is the powerful energy of the city and the amazing people from all over the world who live here. Everyone is different and unique. Everyone has their own inspiring story. There is so much Creativity, Start up spirit, and endless Opportunities!

What do I miss the most about Poland?

I miss my parents very much. I wish my daughter Vivienne and I could spend more time with them. I want my daughter to get to them and Poland even as she grows up a true New Yorker.

Any final thoughts?
I would like to invite all my EuroCircle Entrepreneurs to connect with me ! Also, if there is anyone who just moved here and is looking for a new home (renting, buying or selling) please let me know. As a life coach with New York State real estate license I’m here to help and guide on your new journey as you write a new chapter in your life.

www.ilonalee.com
www.IleMaison.com
Ilona at Facebook
Email Ilona